Thursday, January 25, 2018

Proceed to Destination

Written by Uyoyou Christiana Charles-Iyoha

Perfect conditions do not exist anywhere. That is why princes and princesses marry non royalty. Therefore, take advantage of the opportunities at your disposal to create your supposed perfect conditions.

Spend quality time with knowledgeable and open minded people. Apart from the benefit of learning from them, their open mindedness’ to new ideas will give a boost to your ideas. Knowledgeable people are also secure people who are not intimidated by the success of other people. They are people you need in your journey to share your ideas, successes and challenges with. They will encourage and most often give you great counsel if they understand the dynamics of the industry you are in. You need them.

Avoid people who are stuck in a rut – people who hold on to established ways of doing things that yield zero and negative results.

Avoid people who are fiercely opposed to new ideas. This is because they never see good in the new things that are happening and bringing about transformation in the lives of people and businesses. Do not partner with them whether in business or ministry.
Avoid people who always feel intimidated and insecure when their authority is challenged because new ideas are proposed.
Tread cautiously with insecure people. Their emotional highs and lows coupled with their unending fear and suspicion will confuse and detract you. Remember you are on a journey to a specific destination. Your responsibility is to get there with the right maps and not the emotional lows and highs of insecure people.

Avoid ignorant people who do not want to learn. You do not need them in your train as their ignorance can derail your train.

Proud people always end up as obstacles in your pathway and clog your progress. Run away from them. Please see Proverbs Chapter 16 verse 5.

Contentious people always rock the boat. You do not want your boat to capsize in mid sea.
Stubborn people will not move you anywhere. Their stubbornness is usually clogs in the wheel of progress. Who needs clogs when the world is literally traveling at the speed of light?

Avoid people who have no confidence in themselves and have no desire to build their self confidence. They have only one desire in life – to humiliate people; kill their self confidence. You do not need such people around you for anything as they may affect you negatively if you are not an emotionally strong person.

Envious people are a death trap, a death knell. Avoid them as they usually have a mission of destroying whatever or whoever they are envious of. The chief priest handed Jesus over to Pilate because they were envious of him. Please see Mark Chapter 15 verse 10. The brothers of Joseph allowed their envy of Joseph degenerate to hatred. Consequently, they attempted to kill Joseph but were restrained by Reuben. Even then, they went ahead and sold Joseph to Ishmaelite traders. Please see Genesis Chapter 37 for details. Envy was also the reason that the Philistines envied Isaac and drove him from their land because he was more prosperous than them. Please see Genesis Chapter 26 verses 12 to 31.


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